Prescription for Men

1. Pursue your "quest" and don't confuse that with family or the love of a woman
2. Establish real friendships with women that have nothing to do with a physical relationships
3. Get self-control over your desire for sex

Men tend to be one track (sex) with women, which robs both of a potentially rich relationship. Rather than let sex lead, they would benefit from simply being friends and seeing where a relationship naturally develops. stain from sex for a while(!)

Great resource on this is: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

Ok, I had it wrong

See the Prince Lyrics - it means a woman having self-control . I guess it's a matter of "P Control" for men too, just a different one! And it seems much more important than it is for women.

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